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Friday, August 24, 2012

What's Ahead?

My leisurely summer is quickly coming to an end, but boy did I sure need a break from all of our constant moves, homeschooling through our many trials, and just the demands of life!  However, we still have one day left of free bowling with friends and a day at the beach with our family!  

Here's me and my baby boy, Noah, as we celebrated his 11th birthday this past week.




Wednesday, March 21, 2012

No, I Don't Do Bunnies at Easter

Perhaps you are new to coming to Christ or you want more Christ-centered Easter traditions to help foster your children's faith, if that is the case, then take a look at these activities!  All of these ideas point you and your kiddos to Jesus.  They are great teaching tools, reminders, and faith-builders for you and your family.  You can find more activities like these listed here at, Christ-Centered Easter Activities for Your Family.

As well, you can use many of these ideas as an outreach as you teach others about the true meaning of Easter.

No one has a guarantee of tomorrow, so my encouragement to you is to be intentional and passionate about shepherding your children to our Savior, today!  Spend your time and financial resources on things that will draw you and others towards Christ.   Seeing how I do not believe there is anything that is spiritually profitable about the 'bunny' at Easter, I don't waste my time doing things that center around this animal.  In fact, I think the enemy uses the bunny as a sly way of distracting us and diverting our attention from Christ to a cute, little, cuddly critter during this time of year.  You know, he is cunning like that!

Rather, let's have our focus on Jesus this Easter seeing how He paid the debt for our sins and He poured out His blood for us.

I guess if people can be anti-Jesus, then I can be anti-bunny for just 1 day out of the year! (lol)

Now, on with the activities!

Click on the pictures below and they'll give you all the details!




Crown of Thorns Snack


Love, love, love this!





Marshmallow Lambs


I think these are adorable!





Empty Tomb Treats


Isn't this idea so cute and creative?  I might have to do these seeing how the men in my house LOVE donuts!




Paper Plate Tomb Craft


For the non-sweets people, this one is for you!




Lamb of God Baskets


Seeing how I couldn't find a picture to show you about these baskets, here's my friend's little girl with her Lamb of God Easter basket.  I wrote out the instructions for this basket here, but I thought the photo could help you.  The milk jug handle is in the back and it's the handle to this basket as well.





Resurrection Rolls


I included these on my earlier post, too, but again I had no picture.  What can I say, I like to teach and share with pictures!



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Thursday, March 15, 2012

Christ-Centered Easter Activities for Your Family

Resurrection Day is right around the corner!  It's probably my favorite holiday right next to Christmas!

When my boys were young tots, I wanted to make sure their eyes were on Christ at Easter and not on the bunny.  I have nothing against bunnies, in fact, I think they are quite cute, BUT there is nothing spiritually profitable in teaching young souls to believe in the bunny during the time when we celebrate our Risen Savior.

So, instead of doing a bunch of traditional activities, I incorporated Christ-centered ones into our home. These activities are hands-on, practical, and easy for the whole family!  I have listed several of them for you to pick and choose based on your time and budget.

Enjoy shepherding your children to Jesus!

Resurrection Eggs


Over the years we have used Resurrection Eggs from Family Life.  We found them years ago at a local Christian bookstore.  You can even find them now at Wal-Mart.  They are a great teaching tool of the Easter story.




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Resurrection Cookies















Ingredients:

You need: 1c. whole pecans, 1 tsp. vinegar, 3 egg whites,
pinch salt, 1c. sugar, zipper baggie, wooden spoon, tape, Bible.

Preheat oven to 300 BEFORE BEGINNING

Place pecans in zipper baggie and let children beat them with the wooden spoon to break into small pieces.
Explain that after Jesus was arrested He was beaten by the Roman soldiers. Read John 19:1-3.

Let each child smell the vinegar. Put 1 tsp. vinegar into mixing bowl.
Explain that when Jesus was thirsty on the cross he was given vinegar to drink. Read John 19:28-30.

Add egg whites to vinegar. Eggs represent life.
Explain that Jesus gave His life to give us life. Read John 10:10-11.

Sprinkle a little salt into each child's hand. Let them taste it and brush the rest into the bowl.
Explain that this represents the salty tears shed by Jesus' followers, and the bitterness of our own sin.
Read Luke 23:27.


So far the ingredients are not very appetizing.

Add 1 c. sugar.
Explain that the sweetest part of the story is that Jesus died because He loves us. He wants us to know this and how to belong to Him. Read Psalm 34:8 and John 3:16.

Beat with a mixer on high speed for 12 to 15 minutes until stiff peaks are formed.
Explain that the color white represents the purity in God's eyes of those whose sins have been cleansed by Jesus. Read Isaiah 1:18 and John 3:1-3.

Fold in broken nuts. Drop by teaspoons onto wax paper covered cookie sheet.
Explain that each mound represents the rocky tomb where Jesus' body was laid. Read Matt. 27:57-60.

Put the cookie sheet in the oven, close the door and turn the oven OFF.

Give each child a piece of tape and seal the oven door. If you have any army men, put them by the oven to act like the Roman soldier.
Explain that Jesus' tomb was sealed. Read Matt.27:65-66.

GO TO BED!
Explain that they may feel sad to leave the cookies in the oven overnight Jesus' followers were in despair when the tomb was sealed. Read John 16:20 and 22.

The next morning, open the oven and give everyone a cookie.

Notice the cracked surface and take a bite. The cookies are hollow! On the first Easter Jesus' followers were amazed to find the tomb open and empty! Read Matt. 28:1-9

Resurrection Rolls


Ingredients:

1 pkg. crescent rolls

Large marshmallows (1 per child)

Melted butter

Cinnamon sugar

Give each child one marshmallow. The marshmallow represents Jesus.

Dip the marshmallow in butter and then in the cinnamon sugar mixture. This represents the anointing oils and burial spices.

Wrap the marshmallow up in one triangle of dough. This represents the tomb.

Cook according to package.

When you take a bite, you'll notice that the marshmallow is gone. Jesus is risen!


Lamb of God Easter Baskets


My children would use these baskets to collect the Resurrection Eggs each year and they absolutely loved it!!  (I have scoured my picture files and I can't find a one to show you an example, so you'll need to picture this in your mind!) Update:  You can see a picture of them here.


Supplies needed:

1 Gallon empty plastic milk container (1 container per child)

Large cotton balls

White glue

Googly eyes

Black construction paper for lamb ears and a lamb nose

Take an empty plastic milk jug and cut the top of.  Keep the handle attached because that is how your child will hold their Lamb of God basket.

Cover the plastic container with white glue (painting on watered-down glue is best for little ones!)

Place cotton balls all around the container. This is the lamb's wool so you'll want to cover the container real well.

Cut out lamb ears and a nose and glue on to cotton.

Add eyes.

Now you should have an adorable little lamb basket!


Jesus is the Lamb of God Cupcakes


I just found this one on Pinterest recently and would love to make them with my boys!







Easter Garden


We've never done this one either,  but I love the idea as well.  It's a little out of our budget at this time but I thought I would still share it with you!





Plant an Easter Garden! Using potting soil, a tiny buried flower pot for the tomb, shade grass seed, & crosses made from twigs. Sprinkle grass seed generously on top of dirt, keep moistened using a spray water bottle. Spritz it several times a day.  Set it in a warm sunny location.  Sprouts in 7-10 days so plan ahead.  The tomb is EMPTY! He is Risen!

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Thursday, January 19, 2012

I'm Not Strong Enough

I am not spiritual enough.

I am not compassionate enough.

I am not gracious enough.

I am not loving enough.

I do not have enough faith.

I have been hurt too much.

I am not strong enough to go where you are sending me Lord.



Just to write this post brings me to tears and yet the situation has passed.
 




Two trusted women who knew some of the details prayed for me before I moved into the mission field where the Lord was calling me for that day.



Would I be ignored?

Would I be glared at?

Would I be attacked?

Would I be received?

Would there be conflict?

Those were the questions circling my anxious heart as I prepared to go to my brother's wedding.
My Beloved gave my boys instructions before we left.  "Boys, when you get married, it is your responsibility to protect your wife physically, emotionally and spiritually. Today we are going to protect Mommy."



As we drove over, the radio was playing and the song, “Outcast” came on.

My youngest said, "Mommy’s song is playing."

Isn’t that the truth I thought, and so timely at that!

I listened to the lyrics again and as usual they resonated with my soul.


Outcast Lyrics:

Since I can remember, guess I've been a problem
Never had a filter, never been the popular one
To sugar coat what I know is undeniable
I just can't hide it, I wear it like a "letter"
Everywhere I go, everyone is talking
I can feel them staring, they hope I'm just pretending
And giving up my power, caving into pressure
I'm not living for them, I live for something better

I'm not good enough, I'm not what they want
But let me tell you what, I know who I am
So just throw me out for not fitting in
I will stand my ground and be an outcast

So what if I'm an outcast
So what if I'm an outcast

So what if I don't look the part I'm supposed to play
What if I don't follow all the rules they make
They think I should be perfect
They love it when I mess up
No grace in case I blow it
"A good girl shouldn't need it:

I'm not good enough, I'm not what they want
But let me tell you what, I know who I am
So just throw me out for not fitting in
I will stand my ground and be an outcast

So what if I'm an outcast
So what if I'm an outcast
So slow when everybody's so fast
So what if I'm an outcast

I try to play nice, I don't want to fight
But I won't be gray when it's all black and white   (my emphasis)
'Cause what I believe is what makes me strong
If I don't belong I hold on to love

So what if I'm an outcast
So what if I'm an outcast
So slow when everybody's so fast
No matter what it costs, I'll be an outcast

I'm not good enough, I'm not what they want
But let me tell you what, I know who I am
So just throw me out for not fitting in
I will stand my ground and be an outcast


With my Beloved holding my right hand and my Savior holding my left, we walked into the room.


"But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you.  Matthew 5:44

That's a hard verse to swallow especially after many years of attacks and heartache from those you have grown up with.

The evening was passing without any issues.  I was getting ready to leave, but then I saw a family member I was once close to, but also recently persecuted by.  My heart was sad for all that he has been through, yet more sad that he rejects my Savior and as a result, he lives in darkness.

Thoughts ran through my head:

I have been through a lot and it is hard.

I hurt and it is hard.

But I have MY SAVIOR and I am not lost.

It was in that moment that I forgot about the insults and venom that he once spewed on me and my heart became filled with compassion towards him.

With my Beloved right next to me we walked over to him to say, 'hello' and 'good-bye' all at the same time.  I gave him a hug and said it was good to see him.

Was it easy?

No.

Was it right?

Yes, because the Lord was prompting me to do it.

Could I do it in my own strength?

ABSOLUTELY NOT!

Two hearts fell in love and got married that day.

While two separate, hurting hearts were touched by the Father's hand.



Pray without ceasing, in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you. Do not quench the Spirit.  1 Thessalonians 5:17-19


No, I am not strong enough and I'll never be, but He is and He'll always be.



The LORD is my strength and my shield; my heart trusted in him, and I am helped: therefore my heart greatly rejoices; and with my song will I praise him.  Psalm 28:7


Thursday, December 22, 2011

More is Not Necessarily Better

Christmastime has not always been an easy time for me.  5 years ago, my father died on Christmas Eve and the following year the economy took a downward spiral.  As a result of this decline, our Christmas traditions, preparations and presents became less and less with each passing year.


Traditions.


Memories.


So much of what I was used to was being stripped away from me.


The financial downturn even made an impact on my Christmas tree!


How is that possible, you might ask?


Here’s my story.


Many, many years ago we bought a 9ft. tall Christmas tree for our first home.  At the time, our house was a 2 story and the living room had a vaulted ceiling that reached all the way up to the second story.  7 years later we moved to a single story home and in that house the ceilings reached 14ft.  Seeing how I just loved my Christmas tree, I was excited about the height of the ceilings because I knew our 9 ft. tree would fit in our new home.


My Christmas tree was one of my favorite decorations with its coordinating tree skirt, ribbons, angel topper and ornaments.  It was gorgeous and I used to love to look at it.


One of my preferred things to do was to sit in my chair and turn down the house lights and sit just staring at my lit tree. I would take in the silence and beauty while looking at all the different ornaments.  Some were pictures of my children when they were babes, or crafts they had made for me, others were given to me by friends, some I purchased while on vacation to remind me of our time, and the latest ones were the ones that focused on Christ to help remind us of what Christmas was really about.


Those were fond memories I had of just staring at my tree either in the peace and quiet or with Christmas music playing in the background.  It was a relaxing time.  A soul searching time.  A time to ponder all that God had done and was doing in my life.  A time to enjoy the memories that we were making as a family.


For some strange reason, the tree was important to me and I just loved it!



My 9ft. tree. Picture taken in 2006.

Then we lost our home and moved to a rental home.


When the Christmas season rolled around, we sold my tree because the ceilings were not high enough for the tree to fit AND we needed the money for food.


I was sad to see it go but I reminded myself that it was a material possession, one that the Lord blessed me with.



The LORD gave me what I had, and the LORD has taken it away. Praise the name of the LORD!  Job 1:21

A year later….


We are not in the same rental home, but a different one.  A small home where there is no room for an average size tree, but rather a very tiny one. One that it not even 2 ft. tall (this tree was once used in my son's bedroom during the season.)



My 18 inch tree.  Christmas 2011.


For many years my children were blessed beyond measure with some of their favorite things at Christmas.  Yet, that is not a part of God’s plan these past few years.  Sometimes we think we are missing out if we don’t have a lot of money to spend on our children or bless our friends and family with gifts.



And having food and clothing, with these we shall be content.  1 Timothy 6:8

I love Paul’s words…they soothe my soul.



Not that I speak in regard to need, for I have learned in whatever state I am, to be content: I know how to be abased, and I know how to abound. Everywhere and in all things I have learned both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need.  Philippians 4:11,12

When I take my eyes off of my situation and put them on Christ, then I realize my children get to see God’s hand of faithfulness first hand.  Nothing under the tree is distracting them from seeing the miracles of their Savior.  This is a hard, spiritual exercise even for us adults!


But it is within these formative years that their faith is growing and getting stronger.  He is preparing them for something greater than what I could ever imagine.


They will remember these years when the only presents they received came from others.  They will remember Christ came and blessed them at Christmas.


They will remember that their Daddy and Mommy loved each other in spite of their hardships.  They will remember us holding fast to the scriptures in spite of our difficult reality.


Perhaps you find yourself in a similar situation?  If so, here are some things for you to ponder:


If you had more money this Christmas…..


You’d have more gifts to buy.


More stores to shop at.


More crowds to deal with.


More lines to stand in.


More presents to wrap.


More cookies to bake.


More crafts to decorate.


More things to clean up.


More things to take back.


More things that will eventually get lost, broken or forgotten a few months from now.


More.


More.


More.


No…more is not necessarily better.


There is a blessing in simplicity.  Pure.  Organic.  CHRISTmas.


Cling to Him.


May you seek to have more of Jesus this Christmas.


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Wednesday, December 21, 2011

From My Heart to Yours

Although the year of 2011 proved to be very difficult and draining for me, you know, with 3 painful moves and all that comes with it!  Good grief, I'm surprised I still have enough strength from all the packing and moving to even type this post!


However, in spite of all my heartache, fears and disappointments this year....

  • I still love my Lord

  • my husband

  • my children

  • and of course my family and friends!


I guess nothing else really matters. :)

But because of all our moves, I don't have too many pictures of my family to share with you this Christmas, but what I do have, I hope you'll enjoy them and get a little glimpse into my heart and world.


Click to play this Smilebox slideshowJust press play to view the slideshow and ignore the ads.   What can I say, it was free.










May we be as the wise men of long ago and seek the Savior not just during this Christmas season, but in the days, weeks, and months ahead.


Blessings to you and your family.


Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Seeking the Messiah

When I was a young mother I was very ill for many, many years.  Just getting out of bed and tending to the basic needs of my husband and children was overwhelming and exhausting.  Merge the day to day life with all that needs to be done for Christmas...you know what I'm talking about:  shopping for gifts, wrapping presents, preparing food, baking holiday treats, spending time with family and friends,etc., all great things but in doing them, it sent my body into shut down.


Year in and year out, as Christmas drew closer, my immune system would get lower and lower and eventually I would find myself sicker than a dog waiting anxiously to go back to bed the day I crossed the finish line; Christmas morning.  My gentle and quiet spirit was no where to be found.


Not only did I feel like a failure as a wife and mother throughout the year but even more so during the Christmas season, which ultimately resulted in me loathing the Christmas holiday.  Yet, as a Believer, I knew there was something wrong with my perspective!


Something needed to change.  Seeing how I couldn't fix my body, I had no other choice but to live with my limitations which forced me to become very intentional about what we embraced as a family.


So I made the decision to be like Mary as she sat at Jesus' feet, rather than being distracted like Martha.


You can read the rest of my post over at Stringer Mama's Birthday Gifts for Jesus series.  Just click the button below.



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